that was the problem... i didn't know

No. In my opinion if i love an object more than my family i would classify myself as a heartless person. eg. If anyone loves an object more than his or her family it would be catastrophic. the person could kill his of her family member for an object such as money and other precious items. In my opinion the only way to live peacefully is to not take a very ambitious jobs, as people might get too ambitious. If they get too ambitious the person might start doing stupid things like jumping of a building to get a diamond ring.